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| Attachment theory of love |
| Tuesday, February 12, 2008 |
Done my tests this evening. Called my mum jusnow and we talked about my cousin. He's really cute, especially when he's required to answer a question. His response often cheer up my whole family. When he got angry with me, he wont talk with me eventhough i tried hard to speak with him. At that particular moment, i feel realy sad. Actually i duno why should i care about that so much. He's still a kid, and he is not able to reason rationally and perhaps, his anger to me will diminish in a short while. But i really cant afford to 'lose' him, even it's only for a second. Is it a direct reflection of my love attachment style (anxious style)? Hopefully it's not and my experience told me that i'm not.
Oh ya, my mother told me that this year they coudnt finish the biscuits, soft drink and mandarin. And my brother and her actually came out with a conclusion that it's because of the absence of my group of friends. They said normally my friends (obviously you guys) eat more. Actually i agree with that. Esp 3 of them: kiong, ly, quin, exclude my sis since she's the host :p (shayn, are you one of them?), trying to compare the pineapple short cake and 1 more, duno wat's that, and rank it later on. My brother didn't even know how to estimate how many drinks he should get without my group of friends. Seems like u guys meant a lot not only to me, but also to my family. hahaa....
Get involved!
Which of the following statements best desribes how you typically feel in your romantic relationships?
Secure style: I find it relatively easy to get close to others and am comfortable depending on them and having them depend on me. I dont often worry about being abandoned or about soemone getting too close.
Avoidant style: I am somewhat uncomfortable being close. I find it difficult to trust others completely, difficult to allow myself to depend on them. i'm nervous when anyone gets close, and often love partners want me to be more intimate than i feel comfortable being.
Anxious style: I find that others are reluctant to get close as i would like. I often worry that otehrs are reluctant to get close as i would like. I often worry that my partner doesnt really love me or won;t stay with me. I wnat to merge completely with another person, and this desire sometimes scare people away.
If you're currently in a dating relationship-and have the nerve!-ask your partner how he/she would reply. Are you matched?
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posted by li @ 1:28 AM  |
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haha.. i will help u to drink more on year 2009///~ actually.. can ask shey li to call them to visit ur house even u're absent... since she is quite close with kai kiong them.. wahahha
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u missed out ah mong for the ranking of biscuits. haha. Actually, everyone didn't eat as much as previous years. plus very little people are around to do the visiting. i reckon next year will be worst. our gang is getting smaller by year.
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haha, shd we b proud of tat?
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aiyo dun worry we can always pay a visit to ur house without u. we will " sacrifice ourself to eat all the food and drinks hahaha
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hey, cheng kit oso eat much de lo...
dun look down on her appetitie...
this year we wanna go visit ur house de, cuz can 8 wif shey li ma (kent keat, u r rite..hehe)
but no chance lo, u know la, we very busy one de ma...
haih, this year my grandma house bisciuts oso cannot b finished....
too few ppl coming dy, abit sad actually, really miss that time when my grandma house kitchen was fully seated, and very very noisy...
dunno next year how leh???
p/s: i dun eat much de leh... (if compare to leng, ly n mong)
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sigh~ what a waste that we're not there ya?
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kent: my sis ll get old sooner if she mix with them too often. 2009? ok, i wait u!
shayn: oh ya, i miss out mong. i'm not very sure. cz normally she didnt comment a lot, sit aside and enjoy the biscuits. gang getting smaller by yr? then dun go bek, cum over n acc me..hahaha
l.chun: ya, of cz! we r the champion for eating all the time.both guys n gals are equally good in eating!our gals can maintain their body weight wel even after binge eating. gain weight sumhw, but it wun exceed the normal weight.eg ly, hahaa
liew: dun be so excited, u r leaving in 1 n half month time. You r joining the 'oversea group' very soon, so learn to empathize ur 'member'frm nw onwards. If not, no one ll care bout u when u cry in scotland =)
fatty: ya, last year u ald complaint that we ate less compare to the previous yr, this yr even worse. i think u shuld ask ur aunty to buy less. Again, wat's ur name? Fatty! So how dare u said that u eat lesser than the rest?!
Xin: Should i ask my sis to bring some to ur house? pls remember that u promise to leave sum biscuits for me, i ll be bek, dun wory!
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hey hey hey...y involving me? i didnt join u all for visiting after 1st day ler, how come so many of u put me on the table ler?summore used as example tiam tat hong lili.. i m innocent!!! who said i eat a lot ?which of u all blinded eyes saw tat? kakaka.. n hong lili i tell u oh, i think i alr exceeded normal weight if i am as wat u all said : eat a lot. so actually i m not as wat u all think la, i dun eat so much, little food can make me very full...huiyo...dun misunderstood me!
tat fatty cheng kai kiong plz dun group me together with u n leng n ah mong k? i definitely not the same gang with u three heroin, pay me back my "qing1 bai2"!!
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li, do u mean we guys cant maintain our size? in fact it is a bit true la, u will know when u see wai kok and shien again ahhahaha.
now i can laugh at ppl for a while b4 i regain my size in the future which i m reluctant to regain wakakaka, hope tat i m still tat fit when u come back, i m really worry~~~
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hahahahahahaha
reading the comments for this post really makes me laugh..
if i have such thing to read more often will be good enough to release my stress when exam comes near.
'laughter is the best medicine'
i found it here besides the hysteric laughter we had in lik chun's house last night.
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Ist of all,pls allow me to thank ly as she told me that li blog about who eat most her new year biscuit.if not,i would never know that i was classified in the group of big stomach king.b4 this,i m thinking of defending myself that i didnt't eat much.but,now i m speechless,becos i think i really eat more biscuit compare to the others.come on,it is new year rite,must eat as much as possible.so,now i realize myself alr gain some weight after new year.i m quite happy with u all say i have become thinner when saw me during new year.i think i must now do more yoga,so that i can loss weight,if not,i believe someone would call me fei yu again.
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yah do more yoga and brush up ur "gong chiau " even we manage to do it hahahaha.....
some tips for u leng, if u dun hug the biscuit container may b u will eat less hahaha
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yeah! liew, i absolutely agree with u!! fei yu, pls dun excused tat during CNY can eat more biscuit, u used to b like tat for 365 days a year. if u can "shou1 lian4" a bit sure u can successfully make "gong chiao" lo, do yoga also useless if u keep eating like tat...
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ly: aiyo, stop defending urself la, u eat less only?? who believe oo?? all of us oso know u got big appetitie de la, if not how u become fatter oo?? hahaha....
leng: u not eating much during cny only lo, normally u dun eat less oso ma.. u so cha la, learing yoga but dunno do "gong chiao", may b ur arm n leg too short dy, cannot support heavy body, hahaha...
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so wat's going on here? seem like i've created such a hot topic 2 discuss here....anyway, y it sounds like leng put on weight ald? y all of u keep attacking her now?
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fatty kiong,what u write so funny lar.i dunno y i so happy seeing u teasing me.wat lar,i think heavy wieght is not a factor of cannot do gong chiao!!since u so fat oso can,i m much more thinner,sure can lar.n i want to clarify something here!!!i manage to do gong chiao alr,although i cant do it during awana kijang trip.if u guy not believe,next time i will prove it.
li,haha,this site really can b a discussion forum alr.but sure u dun mind,cos u get the ist news.
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li, to compare n tease whose appetite is bigger mus b the hottest topic among us la,n seems like kiong is the king n leng b the queen, lol...kiong, ur description (bout leng only)really made me laugh, very got point, i stand strong by ur side.
ps: i wan to defend tat i became fatter "a bit" cz i used to sleep after eating, not bcz of eating too much lo (i think so)...i love food but i dun eat so much d, y dun trust me leh? lol..plz open ur tiny eyes and c it clearly la
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haha.. i will help u to drink more on year 2009///~ actually.. can ask shey li to call them to visit ur house even u're absent... since she is quite close with kai kiong them.. wahahha